Despite the seemingly abysmal climate in the realm of modern dating today, men are always, ALWAYS on the lookout for the right girl who is commitment worthy.
It is written in their DNA they are always looking over their shoulder for “The One” they can show off to their best friend and eagerly bring home to meet the family.
However, today finding “The One” can be like finding the needle in the haystack. And there are clear cut red flags that men should look out for early on when vetting a woman they are potentially interested in and must never ignore–and cutting your losses early will save you a lot of trouble and heartache.
1) She’s terrible with money
This is #1 because it is by far the most important. Money problems are a red flag every man must take into consideration as to whether or not he should pursue a certain girl and a potential relationship.
If she’s a chronic spend-aholic, if she’s a “Keeping up with the Kardashians” type showoff and if she constantly has to have the latest designer purse and expensive brand name shoes yet doesn’t have a legit six figure salary to finance her lavish tastes, she’s either heavily in debt, she’s a prostitute, or she’s got a black book of sugar daddies she’s sleeping with who pay for everything–or worse yet, it’s likely all three.
A woman should have at the very least a basic grasp of personal financial responsibility.
She should have a job, a budget she can manage, minimal to no debt, and she should place importance on prioritizing her credit and financial standing.
Unless she is independently wealthy and has a trust fund (98% of women do not) she must have a healthy view towards money and finances. If she does not, dump her. This is not negotiable.
2) She doesn’t care about her figure
Women who are committed to taking care of their figures have a very real grasp of what is intimately important to women as a whole–they understand that their feminine worth hedges on a very strong assurance and commitment to taking care of their appearance.
Women must learn to understand that men are visually-oriented and that having a nice, svelte, beautiful figure is integral to finding the very best selection of men who may choose her as a potential mate.
Taking care of one’s body is a sign of personal respect and respect for life in general. A woman who understands that physical fitness is very important to her own personal life goals will be a wise choice as far as commitment–if she’s committed to being fit, she likely understands the work involved in other forms of commitment.
As an added bonus, chances are very good that a fit woman is a woman who is not on any psychiatric medication as consistent exercise encourages biological functions that bathe the brain with feelgood endorphins that are nowadays “substituted” with pills (there is no substitute for exercise).
A healthy body equals a healthy mind. Any woman who believes otherwise isn’t worth your time.
3) She has an especially jaded view towards men
If a woman is extremely embittered and has a very disdainful view of men and masculinity in general, it is likely because she’s been burned by enough f*ckboys to fill a football stadium.
Women who are dumped repeatedly are those who are jaded towards men whereas, women who are comfortable with themselves around men and long for and appreciate masculinity are so because they likely haven’t spread their legs around town getting dumped by every Joe, Bob and Larry.
And women who have healthy views towards masculinity likely have a strong family upbringing through their fathers and male siblings and see men as a guiding force and not the enemy of womankind.
Bitter women are a product of their environment–if she’s angry at men she probably has a 1,000 reasons to be. Why would you want to be reason #1,001?
4) She has a messy house/apartment
Along with #1 and #2, this goes along with having a healthy amount of self-respect. Cleanliness is godliness–a woman who cleans is a godsend and if she takes pride in keeping things in order, she’s likely to be a woman who places a certain sense of pride in herself overall.
If a woman keeps her abode, the interior of her car and all of her personal living spaces neatly organized, it’s a sign that she likely also keeps many other facets of her life in order and organized.
If she’s a mess, if her apartment looks like it’s been through the tail end of a category 5 hurricane, if it smells awful and worse yet, if she doesn’t seem to care or notice at all, dump her. If she can’t even manage something as basic as keeping her apartment clean, how can she manage to be a decent girlfriend?
5) She eschews religion
The “new atheist” or anti-religious “intellectual” is the latest thing to be. It’s edgy, it’s going against the grain, it’s rebellious, it’s cool, etc.
I hate to break it to you, but no, irreligious non-worship is none of those things, especially when it comes to women. Women will eschew religion because they want to worship something else entirely–often it is something sinister, like worshiping promiscuous sex with random strangers, consumerism, or their own martyrdom in the form of bitterness, loneliness and feigned mental illness.
If a woman can’t submit to God, who is higher than herself, she will never submit to any sort of rule or structure required for a mutually beneficial relationship with anyone. She’s an atheist because she worships herself and her own BS. Dump far and dump fast.
6) She hates children
A woman who hates children is born straight from the pits of hell. Women who hate children have to be the most unnatural, forsaken, horrible abomination of womanhood existing today. They are degenerates, ghouls, and reprobates.
Women are the givers of life. Through conception though our wombs until our unborn make it their destiny to arrive in this world, women plant the seeds of humanity within us–children are the dearest and most wonderful blessing a woman could have.
Women who hate children are wicked. They are hate-filled from the inside out and they will never love anyone–not even you. Raising children is what our bodies are designed to do as women and any woman who hates children hates all of mankind. Dump her right now. She’s a crude and vile cretin.
7) She’s a narcissist
All women are narcissists to an extent–the kind of female narcissist I’m referring to is someone whose entire existence revolves around HER, HER, HER. And no one else on earth matters.
You’ve seen the type. Every conversation she butts into is a segue into her own boring showboating, one-upping, golden vagina contest. “Your mom baked a world class apple pie?? Well my mom baked 112 of them!”
Beware, this type of narcissism is merely a front–it is a form of extreme hamstering that derives from being neglected, ignored and outshined by other people who are actually worthy of the world’s attention. She has to try to steal attention away from everybody otherwise she wouldn’t get any attention at all.
Don’t bother with this sort of female pathological narcissist. You’re never going to matter to her. And you shouldn’t try.
8) Everything about her is “strong and independent”
I don’t really have to explain to any normal, awake, masculine man that a woman who touts being “strong and independent” is a red flag because to them it is already a huge turnoff.
However, to those who might be confused as to what “strong and independent” means when a woman says it, she is saying it because the brutal sexual market has already disqualified her in a variety of ways and she is fully aware of it.
She says she’s “strong and independent” as a facade to soothe her ego by “preemptively disqualifying” all men as a whole because she’s already been disqualified by the men she wants ever so desperately but can never have. She has nothing no successful, high status man would want thus she pretends she has the upper hand and sits on top of the sexual market food chain “strongly and independently”.
“Strong and independent” is basically conceding that she can’t compete in the sexual marketplace. Thus she is “strong and independent” because she has to be and not by personal choice. If she brags about being “strong and independent” she is damaged goods. Dump today and don’t delay.
Pay close attention to these red flags and don’t ignore them. They are red flags for a reason and it will cost you dearly in the long run to pursue any woman who displays them.
Run like hell or it’s your funeral. Don’t say you weren’t warned.